Just Engaged? Everything You Need To Know About Finding Your Dress

Getting engaged is magical—the photos, the ring, the “I can’t believe this is real” feeling. And once the celebration settles, the very next question usually follows:

Where do I even start with my wedding dress?

If you’re newly engaged, you’re not behind. You’re exactly where you should be. Wedding dress shopping is one of the most exciting parts of planning — and with just a little guidance, it can be seamless, joyful, and surprisingly stress-free.

Here’s everything you need to know before you step into your first bridal appointment.

When Should You Start Wedding Dress Shopping?

Most brides should begin shopping 10–12 months before the wedding.

That may sound early, but here’s why it matters:

• Most designer gowns take 6–8 months to be made

• Alterations typically require 8–12 weeks

• Shipping delays and customization can add extra time

Starting early gives you:

• Access to the full designer collections

• Time to customize details like sleeves, necklines, or trains

• A relaxed experience (which makes finding the one much easier)

If your wedding is sooner, don’t worry—many boutiques (including ours) also carry ready-to-wed and sample gowns for shorter timelines.

How Much Should You Budget for Your Wedding Dress?

Nationally, the average wedding dress falls between $1,800 and $3,500, though luxury designers and couture gowns can be higher.

When setting your budget, remember:

• Alterations are usually separate (plan for $500–$800)

• Accessories like veils, overskirts, or sleeves can add to your look

• A higher-quality gown often means better fit, fabric, and structure

A great stylist will help you find something beautiful within your budget — without pressure or upselling.

What Happens at a New Bridal Appointment?

A new bridal appointment is nothing like browsing online.

At The White Magnolia, you’ll have:

• A private bridal suite

• A dedicated stylist

• Curated gowns based on your vision, venue, and unique style

• Time to try on, move, sit, walk, and truly feel your dress

Your stylist will guide you through silhouettes, fabrics, and details—often introducing you to styles you never expected to love.

Most brides find their dress in one to two appointments.

Who Should You Bring With You?

The best shopping experiences happen with a small, supportive group.

We recommend:

• 2–4 people who know your style and respect your vision

• Avoid large groups or anyone who may pressure you into something that doesn’t feel like you

Keep in mind, you want feedback—not noise.

Do You Need to Know Your Style Before You Go?

Not at all. You might love sleek satin one day and fall in love with lace the next. Your stylist’s job is to help you explore, narrow, and discover what truly feels like you.

If you want to prepare:

• Save a few Pinterest or Instagram photos

• Think about your venue and overall vibe

• Consider what you wear when you feel most confident

That’s more than enough.

What If You Fall in Love With a Dress?

When you find “the one,” you’ll place an order or purchase your gown that day.

Your stylist will:

• Take your measurements

• Walk you through production timelines

• Help schedule your alterations

Then the countdown to your first fitting begins—one of the most exciting moments of your entire wedding journey!

Your Dress Should Feel Like You

Your wedding dress isn’t about trends, opinions, or pressure.

It’s about how you feel when you step into it. Calm. Confident. Beautiful. Like yourself — but elevated.

And that moment? We live for it.

Ready to Start Dress Shopping? We’re Here to Help.

Whether you’re 14 months out or just a few weeks away, our stylists are here to guide you through every step with warmth, expertise, and excitement.

Book your appointment at The White Magnolia and begin your dress journey with confidence!